When we are in love we tend to confuse some strange attitudes with love, many times we think that if they are jealous of us it is because they love us and that is how we overlook many acts of emotional violence. In the face of the wave of gender violence and feminicide, it is important that you identify when your partner is exaggerating in his or her behavior. If you are having problems with your love life, we recommend program called His secret obsession.
There are some signs that indicate that what your partner feels for you is not love but obsession, check out some of them:
Also read: Keys to know if your partner loves you
10 characteristics of an obsessed boyfriend
HE WANTS TO KNOW WHERE YOU ARE ALL THE TIME
Whether by call, text message, WhatsApp, Facebook, your partner wants to know where you are, sometimes even asking your close friends your location to know or corroborate what you’ve told them.
KNOWS WHERE YOU ARE EVEN IF YOU DON’T TELL THEM
You may not have told him where you plan to go with your friends, but he already knows. You don’t know how he finds out, but he always manages to know where you are.
HE KNOWS YOUR ENTIRE SOCIAL AND FAMILY CIRCLE
Whether it’s friends, acquaintances, co-workers, family or even your followers on social networks, he knows about all your contacts.
HE GOES OUT WITH YOU EVERYWHERE
He thinks his life comes down to your company. He’s put his life aside to get into yours. Remember that each member of the couple must have the freedom and independence to carry out activities alone.
KNOWS YOUR ENTIRE LOVE LIFE
He knows your entire history of love and heartbreak. If he even asked you about your former partners, you told him and he got angry, you must think this is not healthy at all. Unless he holds some past relationship against you when a conflict arises.
HE COMES TO YOUR HOUSE WITHOUT WARNING
It can happen from time to time, but when it becomes frequent you must be alert. If a fight doesn’t give you a chance to think things through and he shows up at your house without saying anything first, he’s taking away your chance to process things well.
ASKS YOU FOR ALL THE PASSWORDS
Whether it’s from your social networks or your cell phone. This is not healthy at all because it is an invasion of your privacy, not that you have anything to hide, but that there are things we should keep to ourselves.
LOOK FOR SILLY REASONS TO PROVOKE A FIGHT
He is always suspicious of someone or something, and sometimes he looks for any excuse to get angry and blame you for his mood.
HE’S AN EMOTIONAL BLACKMAILER
Sounds familiar: No one will love you like I do, you won’t find anyone better than me. Alert, this is emotional blackmail, where threats are passed on and a vicious circle of violence begins.
This is the final step in initiating domestic violence that in the worst case scenario can end up in femicide. If she won’t let you date because she distrusts everyone, spies on you, and has even caused you to stay away from your friends, you should be careful.
We believe that violence is a hit, however there is one that is just as or worse harmful than physical violence, and I mean emotional violence. If you notice that your partner shows any of the following attitudes, talk to him or her and if he or she doesn’t change them, it’s best to walk away. Love does not harm or destroy, on the contrary, it gives us wellbeing.
Also read: Make your man addicted.